Everyone says you drop off the face of the earth when you get married,
that you have no friends.
That is silly.
And not healthy.
We love friends.
They make our life so much richer,
While Ben may be my best friend,
having a husband doesn’t replace having girlfriends.
Ben may be all I need,
but in the wise words of C.S. Lewis:
Today I had lunch with these lovelies.
They’re my favorite.
And I still call them my roommates.
And they always make me laugh.
If you get married, keep your friends.
Make new ones too, we love doing that.
But call your old ones.
See them often.
Don’t drop of the face of the earth.